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Dating A Younger Woman - The Pros And Cons

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There used to be a stigma attached to dating younger women if you were a much older guy. And while this is still the case to some degree, nowadays it has slowly faded as women dating younger men are even becoming socially acceptable.

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There are a lot of social stigmas, but they certainly shouldn’t affect you if you truly care about the person. In dating younger women, you need to be aware of not only the advantages but also the disadvantages as well.

But still, the decision is yours to decide if age makes a difference or not and if you are ready to face what others might think or say. After all, you’re the only one who knows what can truly make you happy and not them.

The Pros of Dating Younger Women

  1. Younger women typically wants a man with maturity, experience, and done with playing immature games. Obviously, this is not a man who belongs to her age group. And fortunately, she’s looking for older guys. This doesn’t necessarily mean men in their 60’s or 70’s, but men who have a significant age gap from her own age. So you’re definitely in vantage.

  2. Younger women can bring more zest into your life which often pales in some of us as we grow older. Sad to say, we often allow ourselves to become jaded and add more years to our appearance than our actual age as we age. If you’re with younger women however, you’ll certainly be influenced by their vitality.

  3. Younger women are more adventurous. Whether in trying new things or even sexual escapades, they tend to be more into it as compared to older women. So if that interests you, you’ll surely have fun dating younger women.

  4. Younger women are often flexible and can easily adapt to changes. They can get accustomed to your lifestyle and whatever that entails because they have fewer ties to prevent them from devoting majority of their time with you, like career, family, or children.

The Cons of Dating Younger Women

  1. Wisdom and maturity are qualities that come with age. They cannot develop no matter how you force it. And you cannot act wise or mature unless you really are. If you try to fake it, it will eventually surface as a facade. Most men find these traits admirable and sexy in a woman. Unfortunately, younger women often don’t have them yet.

  2. Younger women tend to demand more of your time and energy. They are more insecure compared to older women and can be very suspicious and jealous. Probably because they have not met their self-actualization need yet compared to the more established older women.

  3. Younger women are sometimes not ready for a serious relationship yet. If that’s what you’re looking for at this stage in your life, you probably wouldn’t like to deal with this kind of problem.

  4. Sad to say, some younger women are just searching for father figures or a "sugar daddy" to buy everything they wish for. If the idea of being used by someone purely for your money makes you sick to your stomach, be careful in dating younger women. You might not only lose your wallet, but even your own self-respect.

These are just some of the pros and cons to consider when dating younger women and the situations commonly affecting couples with significant age differences. The benefits of knowing ahead what you’re getting into will lessen the chances of you feeling sorry in the end.

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