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Does he love me? - 8 Tell Tale Signs

“Does he love me? Or am I just imagining it?” In writing this article I’m not just giving my own personal beliefs like inferior articles available on the Internet do. Here you will receive real ways to tell if a person loves you based on scientific and psychological research.

Being able to tell if an individual loves you is simple when you know the signs and know how to interpret them. In trying to know if a guy loves you, it’s important not to base your opinion on one sign, as one sign on its own is liable to misinterpretation.

If a guy loves you, he won't come out and say that directly to you until he is certain that you feel the same. This is his subconscious actively trying to protect him for pain. What the subconscious does instead is look for ways to display to you that he loves you without verbally saying it. This way if you reject him, it won't hurt him as much as he hasn't put himself "on the line".

8 Clues That He Is In Love With You

Answer yes or no to the following questions and count how many yes answers you come up with by the end.

  1. Regularly coming up to you: If the guy often looks for excuses to chat to you it's a big sign that he sees you as more than a friend. Here his subconscious looks for any excuse to be in your presence and be able to talk to you. The frequency with which he does this it is a key indicator to knowing if he loves you. Does he do this frequently? (Yes/No)

  2. Physical closeness: When a person loves someone, they tend to maintain a close distance between them and the individual they love whilst talking. This distance is smaller than he would normally keep with someone that he was just friends with. Has he done this with you? (Yes/No)

  3. Permanent smile in your presence: If the guy loves you, his subconscious will be happy to be with you and this inevitably shows with a generally smiling face while with you. If you're not talking about anything particularly funny but he's still displaying a generally smiley face he almost certainly has feelings for you. Does he show this? (Yes/No)

  4. Lasting smiles: Fake smiles don't last very long, only real smiles do. If he keeps a smile on for a good few seconds, before it fades to the generally happy looking face (mentioned above), then it shows he genuinely enjoys being with you. Does he do this? (Yes/No)

  5. Occasionally ignoring you: When a guy loves a girl his subconscious causes him to start showing a lot of interest. After he's left your presence and on his own, his conscious kicks in and realises he showed way too much interest and worries he may be starting to look too eager. To counter this he reckons the next time he should show significantly less interest to keep up his value in your eyes. Being really into one day, then ignoring you somewhat the next can be a strong indicator that a guy loves you. Has he done this? (Yes/No)

  6. Being nice to your friends: If a guy wants a girl, he knows that it's important that he's accepted by that girls friends in order for her to go out with him. If he's been showing interest in being nice to your friends whereas before he had no interest, it can be a strong indicator that he loves you as he's really making an effort to make you like him. Has he done this? (Yes/No)

  7. Accidental meetings: If you find you're bumping into him by accident a lot more than you used to, it may not be just coincidence. Often when a guy loves a girl he tries to change his schedule to match hers in the hope that he might bump into her at a certain time and place. Of course this can happen by accident, but when it happens more than what you would consider to be just coincidence then it may be love. Has this happened? (Yes/No)

  8. Physical orientation: If you're out with friends and he's present, a good way to tell if you're on his mind is if he keeps you in his line of sight even while talking with other individuals. His subconscious will cause him to do this so he can look at you. Do you find him often keeping you in his line of sight? (Yes/No)

So does he love me!?

If you answered yes to five or more of the above, it’s a sure sign that he loves you. In addition to the above, in my book "THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology" I explain that love is essentially the releasing of chemicals and hormones into your bloodstream. Thinking of, or being with, a certain individual can cause this release. This release is a biological process and not because of "fate" or "destiny".

If you take the above love signs and use them in reverse on someone you like, you stand a very good chance of making them fall in love with you. Using them in reverse on him can force the releasing of these chemicals and hormones in him and fill him with excitement. He would then associate this feeling of excitement and love with being in your presence and fall for you.

Doing this on its own does not guarantee you'll make him fall for you. I go through the complete process of what to do to guarantee you do that in the book. Suffice to say that the more you do, the easier it is to make anyone fall in love with you.

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