Get Your Girlfriend Back in 5 Steps
You're probably aware of the logic behind not wanting to make a bad situation worse in trying get your girlfriend back. This is just common sense. However, if you're like most guys who have just been broken up with, you're probably doing the exact things you shouldn't do to get your girlfriend back.
In the book "" I go through the steps you should take following a break up that will ensure you get your girlfriend back. The book is based on fundamental psychology that allows you to get inside your girlfriends mind and induce feelings in her for you.
I also go through the things you shouldn't do when trying to get your girlfriend back. The problem is that without proper training, anything you do now to get your girlfriend back will come from a place of being pathetic and eagerness of wanting to get back together. These are not attractive characteristics, and at this moment in time, you don't want to be unattractive to her.
So what should you do to get your girlfriend back?
Be strong: If you text or phone her constantly after the break up, it only demonstrates how lost you now are. This won't get your girlfriend back and will, at best, only make her feel pity for you. You might be thinking to yourself that it'd feel good if she felt pity for you but the reality is that what you're doing is only driving her away further.
Apologize: She has just dumped you, so it’s important that you acknowledge where you have gone wrong. By apologising, you are removing the possibility of her subconscious using "you not apologising" as an excuse to not getting back with you. That said, apologise once and then move on from it. To get your girlfriend back, you shouldn't keep apologising, as this would only make you look weak and lame.
Find out where things went wrong: You may have apologised for the surface reasons she gave you for breaking up with you. However behind these surface reasons is a deeper hidden reason for the break up. This is where most guys fall down in their attempt to get an ex back. To get your girlfriend back, you'll need to find out what this deeper reason was for her departure. You will need to examine your past conversations and time with your ex so as to understand better her psychological make up. I go through this area in detail in my book "How to make anyone fall in love with you".
Change: Findingout what caused her to leave, will result in you having to make some changes in order to remedy the situation. The real change you have to show to your ex is in your character. As I’ve said you'll need to examine your exs psychological make up in order to know what aspects of you must be brushed up on or changed entirely. This sounds difficult but is important to get your girlfriend back. Thankfully however, doing this doesn't require a degree in psychology. I show how it can be done easily in my book.
Leave the past in the past: The break up is in the past. You should leave it there. From here you only want to talk about how you'll have a better relationship in the future. If she brings it up, that’s fine, but don't give her the guilt trip about how cruel she was in dumping you. In truth she won't care. Whining will not help you get your girlfriend back.
Final point on getting your girlfriend back
I've gone through some points here and you may question if whether these approaches are fair or not. If you 're looking for fair, go to court and hang out there.
If you're looking for real life and want to get your girlfriend back, be prepared to make compromises to make it happen. You won't have to completely alter who you are, but rather work on displaying the best you have to offer to your girlfriend.
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