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Getting Her back ...By Giving Her Space

If you want to truly succeed at getting her back, the best way to do it is to make sure she falls in love with you again. Why? Because this would decrease the likelihood of her ever leaving you again. What most people don’t realise about love is that it is like any other emotion such as:

  • Fear

  • Stress

  • Anxiety etc

All these emotions can be controlled when the correct methods are applied to each. The problem is that people have become so programmed by TV and the media about love being some magical force based on destiny, that we find it hard to believe that love, just like these other emotions, can be controlled.

In my book “How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology”, I go through the rules that govern love, and how to use these rules to make anyone you want fall in love with you. It significantly increases your chances of success at getting back an ex above if you had gone it alone.

So what can I do to get her back?

Aside from the psychology I reveal in my book that you should be employing right now, other ways that can help you in getting her back include:

  1. Give her time alone: Of course you miss her and that’s bad, but the thing is, giving her space will make her miss you too. Break contact for approximately 3 weeks, just enough time for her to wonder why you haven’t called and where you could possibly be right now. The no communication strategy will help her see your value in her life.

  2. Figure out your faults: While giving her some time alone, take this time to reflect on how your relationship went and what was wrong with it or what was wrong with you. Recall the things that your ex really liked about you before you became a couple and work on that again. If it has something to do with not being attractive enough for her then you have 3 weeks to work it out. If it were some attitude problem, then resolve to change that bad attitude now.

  3. Avoid doing the mistakes you made in the past: You probably have done something wrong to bring the relationship to an end. Perhaps you were flirting with other girls and of course no girlfriend would like to have her boyfriend do such a thing. If you keep doing it and she hears from other people about it, you could lose your chance of winning her back.

  4. Allow her to see you’ve changed: You don’t have to tell her yourself that you’ve changed for the better. Let the good news spread itself through friends. The more good news she hears about you, the more likely she’ll find a renewed admiration for you.

How do I get her back after 3 weeks?

When the 3 weeks is up, give her a call and say you just wanted to say hello. You can initiate a light conversation but don’t mention the past or anything about getting back together.

Say you miss her and when she says she feels the same, that’s your clue to a positive chance of having her again very soon (given you make the right moves on winning her heart back)

The next time you call, you can ask her for a date and see how things go. Remember that you need not continue a relationship that went wrong. Forget the past relationship and ask her you will start things anew.

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