Getting The Love You Want - Using A "Lovemap"

People will fall in love with people that meet certain specifications we've set out in our minds for what a potential partner should be like. Everyones list or "lovemap" is different because it's built upon our own individual:

• Past experiences

• Childhood

• And relationships etc

which of course are different to each individual. And this list is key to getting the love you want.

However this list would not lead to love if there wasn't some level of attraction to back it up. Even if you consider yourself to be ugly or fat thankfully making a person fall for you is not dependant on physical characteristics like these. Ability to fall in love is by no means confined to physical attractiveness. I go through these in the book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology"

Getting the love you want by increasing your attractiveness

Basic ways to increase a persons attractiveness could include:

• Smiling more

• Standing tall and straight

• Wearing clothes that fir you well and are stylish

• Having a good hairstyle

Now these may seem obvious, and they are. The problem is that people tend to equate attractiveness to physical things like the above, which they can physically see to be attractive.

However, attractiveness is also determined by non-physical characteristics such as confidence, assertiveness, good sense of humour etc.

Using these for getting the love you want

I'm sure you've seen at one stage or another an attractive girl going out with an ugly guy and you've probably been amazed. However what you can't see just by looking at him are other qualities that are attractive such as his humour, ambition or fullness of life. These qualities can give the appearance of attractiveness even though they are not physical things themselves.

If you want to make a person fall for you, you should examine these other factors too and get a more rounded idea of yourself in other peoples eyes. In this article I’ve gone through some things about you yourself, which can make a person fall in love with you.

However, that’s only half the story. To make a person fall in love with you, you need to examine that persons mind and psychological make up and see how you can take advantage of that to get them to fall in love with you.

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