How to get my ex back? Should i beg them?

NO! If you've read any of my articles on here, you'll know that to get your ex back, I stipulate breaking off all communication with them for 3 weeks after the break up.

There are various reasons why this is vital which I go through in the book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology". But how should you handle yourself during this period?

Things to do to get your ex back

The 3 weeks isn't just about non-communication. It’s also about organising an action plan and putting it into operation. Don't worry, you wont have to come up with one - I’ll do that for you. First order of business:

• Get my ex back Step #1: Stay in her world: You want to cut off all communication with your ex while at the same time making sure you're still in her periphery. This creates the ideal situation of depriving your ex of being able to chat with someone that was a major part of her life while at the same time prevents her from moving on happily with her life. A good way to ensure this is to not take your personal belongings back from her place. You want to let these reminders of you around her home so she'll have constant reminders of you niggling at her.

• Get my ex back Step #2: Her family: If you have been on good terms with her family, say her mom or her brother, ring them up and say goodbye. You'll want to come across as caring and genuine as possible during this phone call. The reason you ring them is not really for a goodbye as such but to leave them with the most positive impression possible of you.

  If you do this, they'll be on your side when they talk about this phone call to her and generally will give your ex the impression she's losing a great guy. If they say, "I hope we'll still be friends", agree to this offer so you can stay in their lives. Try not to talk to them about the break up, as you don't want to put them in the awkward situation of taking sides. They'll take sides of their own accord however by being genuine now, you will help them over to your side.

• Get my ex back Step #3: Her friends: You can use her friends to create a confusion strategy on your ex. Neither your ex nor her friends will be "in" on this tactic, only you. You'll need 2 of her close friends, lets call them Friend A and Friend B. When you meet Friend A tell her you've got lots of exciting things going on right now that its helping you get over your ex. Say that you still miss your girlfriend but you've changed alot since the break up and look forward to the future.

  A few days later when you meet Friend B, repeat the above but omit all references to your ex. From this, when they talk about their meetings with you to your ex, they'll give her conflicting reports on whether you still miss her or not. Creating confusion in your ex right now is will be a key aid in getting her back.

How to get my ex back with this info

The above examples should be used in trying to get an ex back but they are only pointers and not the complete picture. Far more work needs to be done to ensure she falls in love with you.

I go through the full set of steps in the book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology" By keeping on good terms with her family and friends, it will make it more difficult for her to move on without you.

Family and friends form a major part of anyones life. Consequently, people tend to regard their thoughts and opinions in high regard. This also relates to their opinion of whether you both made a good couple or not. So having a positive foothold in their minds makes it that bit easier to get your ex back.

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