How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back ...By Analysing Her Personality
In trying to get your ex girlfriend back, there’s no one solution that can fix every guys situation. This is because different women respond in different ways to different things. If you got this wrong in your relationship and expected your girlfriend to be impressed by things that didn't impress her at all, it may be the reason for your eventual dumping.
In my book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology" I go through in detail, psychological techniques that have been proven to make a person fall in love with you including an ex you dumped you. However in this article, i'd just like to focus on emotional systems and how you can use these to get your ex girlfriend back.
Understanding emotional systems allow us to figure out the main personality type your ex falls. By doing this we can better figure her out and what needs to be done accordingly to get her back. Women can be categorised via the emotional systems list. She may have either:
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A visual emotional system
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A feel/touch emotional system
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An audio emotional system
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A colour emotional system
These systems basically tell us what turns a girl on the most. Now every girl will have a percentage of each system but it’s the system that’s dominant that you need to focus on to get your ex girlfriend back. Here I want to focus on just one - the visual emotional system.
Getting a Girl Back Who Has a Visual Emotional System
First you can only get your ex girlfriend back by knowing which system applies to her. If she has a feel/touch emotional system then it'd be more appropriate to work on things that can appeal to a person who falls into that category.
Girls with a visual emotional system however, are girls that place a high amount of value on looks and things that are visually appealing.
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They may refuse to eat certain types of food based solely on how it looks.
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They may choose what kind of car to drive based on how it looks as opposed to if its a good make or model or would be reliable etc.
With this said, a big reason a girl with a visual emotional system could dump a guy is because of the way he looks.
This doesn't mean that you're ugly. The contrary is actually the case, as she must have liked your looks to go out with you in the first place and be your girlfriend.
However, a lot of guys when they're in a relationship stop taking care of the way they look because they think they've "got her" now. They stop taking care of things such as their dress sense and maybe even put on weight.
How to use this to get your ex girlfriend back
If you think the above applies to you, then to get your ex girlfriend back you will need to take immediate action to remedy the things that have become unattractive about you in recent times. In trying to get a girl back who has a high visual emotional system, taking care of your looks should be a priority.
Addressing a girls visual emotional system is only one part of trying to get your ex girlfriend back however. I go through the full system you need to adopt in my book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology". Suffice to say that the more principals you adopt, the easier it will become to get your ex girlfriend back.
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