How To Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back

If you want to know how to win your ex boyfriend back, you’re going to need to do some detective work and find out what attracted him to you in the first place. Everyone has a lovemap or a list of the things they look for in a partner. You satisfied your ex boyfriends lovemap when you first met because he started going out with you.

However, over the course of your relationship something changed. Either the specifications of his lovemap changed or you changed. Whichever one it is, you are going to have to rectify it to make him fall for you again. I show how to do this in my book “How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology”

Aside from re-matching the specifications of his lovemap, I want to go through here some pointers you need to look out for when trying to win back an ex boyfriend.

5 Steps To Winning Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Firstly, understand what happened: Before you decide to give your relationship one more try, evaluate what caused your break up and find out if getting your ex back is really worth it. If you broke up because of something petty and you realize it shouldn’t be a cause for a break up, then probably your relationship is worth another chance. But if the reasons for your break up are beyond repair like an infidelity on his part or he shows some kind of violent behaviour when provoked, then perhaps you need to reconsider wanting to get back with him.
Don’t act heartbroken: Cry if you have to but don’t let him see you do it. Act like you are okay and happy despite the break up. Don’t overdo it though or he might suspect it’s just an act. Keep your cool and present an aura of confidence and strength. This will intrigue him about how you could possibly project such poise and self-assurance after having been dumped. The more you leave him wondering like this, the more likely he’ll start thinking of getting back with you.
Look your best: It will help a lot if you look your best around this time. If you take your outward appearance for granted, your ex may feel he was right to break up with you. However, if you look good and confident your ex will be forced to see you as a strong individual that didn’t collapse under having been rejected. This will cause his subconscious to question whether he was right to break up with you after all. Being strong also means you are more likely to get another boyfriend quickly because you have the confidence to get out there and be defiant.
Avoid the chasing game: You don’t want to look and sound too desperate about getting your ex back. Act subtly and avoid displaying obvious actions of trying to win his affection again. A lesson to be learned from male psychology is that the longer you are away from your ex, the more desirable you will become to him. So stop chasing him, if that’s what you’re doing right now.
Be genuinely sweet and kind: When your ex starts contacting you again, be the girl that he had wanted before the break up. Tell him that it’s nice of him to ask how you have been and thank him for it. Show him that you are naturally sweet and kind. This will make it difficult to find reasons not to get with you enhance the idea in his mind that a relationship with you is worth another chance.