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How to Get My Boyfriend Back? - 2 Options Available to You Right Now

I often get questions like "how to get my boyfriend back?". When faced with a situation like this, you have 2 options:

  1. Guess what you should do and hope for the best

  2. Or look for a proven system based on proven psychology in getting an ex back

I set up this website for the latter – to make sure people in your situation have the best information and knowledge available to them when they need it most.

In my book “THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology” I show the exact steps you should take after a breakup to not only ensure that you get back with him but that he also falls in love with you. This is the only way to prevent him from ever leaving you again.

Ok so what should I be doing to get my boyfriend back?

Aside from what I show in my book, other things that can help get him back include:

  • Analyze why you broke up: There might have been problems during the relationship that you have failed to solve. You might have done the same mistakes repeatedly that made your ex say he was fed up. If you don't know what went wrong, try looking for the answers. Examine yourself, your attitude and the way you treated your ex when you were still together. If you think you caused the split up, then do your best to change your bad habits and attitudes. Reflect on the qualities that made him fall for you in the first place because you'll need to refind them.

  • Don’t bug your ex: Guys do not like girls who are clingy, needy and obsessive. Distance yourself from him. Don't call, text or IM him. Do not “accidentally” bump into him in his places of hangout. Give him time alone.

  • Live a full life: Party with your friends. Go on a holiday. Take on a new hobby. Anything that keeps you occupied, as right now the temptation can be to feel sorry for yourself and stay indoors. The problem with this is that this kind of attitude is far from attractive. Occupying yourself is also a good way for you to keep your mind off your ex and from any urges of contacting him.

  • Take care of yourself: No matter how depressed you are, do not neglect your physical appearance. Instead, improve on your body by going to the gym. Get your nails done or a new hairdo. Give your best effort to always look attractive. An ex would expect you to be down after having been dumped but if you can show yourself to look good and be confident it will knock his ego. He’ll wonder if he has as much power over you as he thought and subconsciously start to wonder if he was right in dumping someone who is so together.

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