5 Things You Need To Do When Approaching A Woman

The reason you’re reading this article is because you’re probably one of those guys who often get in trouble when approaching women. You know what to do, you know what to say, but you don’t seem to get any luck at all. So what are you doing wrong?

Well, for starters, maybe you look awkward whenever you try to approach a beautiful girl due to your lack of self-confidence. It could also be because of your fear of rejection.

Approaching women may not come as easy as A-B-C. But there are certain ways on how you could make things a lot easier for yourself.

Are you worried about how you look?

According to psychological research, the main factor for fear of rejection is that people get conscious with how they look. They feel that they will just be shrugged off when they approach someone because they don’t look good enough.

Have you heard of the saying that “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder?” Each of us are born with different physical qualities. It’s up to us how we are going to embrace these attributes.

Once you’ve accepted yourself as what and who you are, approaching a stranger would come as a breeze. There are 5 important things to remember when you want to meet someone:

1. Don’t expect anything: Having great expectations will be your downfall. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Approaching someone doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll get to pick up the woman. Just enjoy the experience and learn something from it.

2. Be aware of your body language: You might have probably heard that body language comprises 90% of our communication with other people. Stop slouching and stand straight. Your body posture will give away your anxiety and that’s not cool.

3. Ditch the pick up lines: Some guys claim that pick up lines are the best conversation starters with women. But as a matter of fact, they’re not, especially the cheesy ones. Just say “hi” to the girl, say your name, and the rest will follow. You’ll even save yourself from embarrassment.

4. Have a topic ready: Nothing’s worse than a dead air during a conversation. Keep things interesting by being ready with a story or a joke. No dull moments please. Any girl will feel at ease with you and you’ll get her to open up.

5. Practice constantly: There is no other way to make yourself comfortable with approaching women than by getting used to it. So practise it whenever and wherever you can.

The benefits you’ll get here are a boost in your self-confidence, an improvement in your social skills, you’ll get to talk with any woman you like and consequently you'll find that you feel much better about yourself.