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How To Make Him Jealous …The Right Way

So you’re determined to know how to make your ex jealous. While you’re right in that jealousy can be a powerful tool, you’re probably wrong in the way your thinking of implementing it.

If you’re thinking of getting someone new on your arm and that will make your ex come running back to you – then you’re making the mistake of so many that have gone before you. This approach almost always backfires, making the task of getting the ex back even harder.

Why is this?

The problem is that your ex will view this kind of approach as manipulation. And when people feel they are being manipulated – the reaction is to fight it and prove that they can’t be controlled. They will want to prove to both you and themselves that you will fail in your endeavour.

In my book “THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology”, I show the correct way to make an ex jealous that will not only guarantee success but also eliminates the risks that making someone jealous normally entails.

So what’s the correct way to make an ex jealous? Firstly, you must make it look like you’re not deliberately trying to make them jealous. Aside from what I show in my book, other things you can do include:

  • Act A Little Uninterested: Do not attempt to initiate contact with your ex. This will keep your ex partner wondering why you’re not even bothering to call when you used to call three times a day when you were a couple. When your ex contacts you, act as if you are in a hurry and you have better things to do than to entertain him or her.

  • Try To Look Good Always: Don’t leave your outward appearance go downhill even though you feel terrible right now. Don’t leave the break up affect the self confidence you were carrying before. Stay in shape and keep yourself attractive. Your ex will be forced to acknowledge some respect for you in seeing you maintaining your confidence despite the break up. Your ex will begin to question their own power over you when they see you are still strong even though you were dumped.

  • Go Out And Enjoy Life: A little mourning is natural after having a break up but keeping yourself isolated from the rest of the world will not get your ex back for you. So stop sulking and instead spend time with your family and friends.

  • Stay Nice: It is so easy to be rude and nasty to someone who has hurt your feelings. However, if you really want to get back together with your ex, you have to move on from the break up and start again - leaving the past behind. You cannot carry the pains from the past relationship and bring it to this new one you are hoping to make with your ex. So be nice and gentle with your ex whenever the opportunity calls for it. Bring out that natural sweetness within you. This is more likely to cause your ex to consider giving it another chance when they see you being this mature about the breakup.

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