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How To Get Someone To Notice You

Want to know how to get a boy to notice you?
Want to know how to get a girl to notice you?

When we like/love someone, our natural inbuilt response is to try and get the attention of that person in order to make them notice use ...and create a gateway to bring them into our lives.

Afterall, if the person doesn’t even notice us …then they can hardly fall in love with us. We must first find a way of getting into that persons mind even if it is at a distance to begin with it.

But, this is where most people make a mistake.

…a BIG mistake.

What mistake?

Some people confuse attracting someone …with attracting attention. And this is the wrong approach. It’s easy to attract someones attention and get them to notice you …but that doesn’t mean that that attention will cause them to be attracted to you.

Attracting someones attention in general by doing something unusual (or even by doing something stupid) might get that persons attention for a few moments …but this attention is short-lived and doesn’t equal attraction.

This is NOT how to get a boy to like you ...or how to get a girl to like you.

Superficial tricks and gimmicks on how to get the attention of someone you like are a dime a dozen online and in the book stores. And the bottom line is that these don’t work.

In fact, attention like this can often have the opposite effect if the person sees through your act and interprets it as you being a show-off or someone that’s insecure that needs to get others’ attention.

So how do I attract someone I like?

You need to move past generalized superficial ways of attracting the attention of someone you like …and instead move on to laser targeted ways of attracting someone. Doing this is the difference between someone simply noticing you for a few moments …and them actually beginning to feel something for you and falling in love with you.

So how can this be done?

In my book “THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology” …I show how to attract someone to you so that they fall in love with you. That book covers alot of information, but basically you need to do two things to attract someone to you in the way that causes them to fall in love with you (rather than just simply superficially getting their attention for a short while):

  1. Match Their Lovemap: Each of us has in our mind a subliminal guide to our perfect partner. This guide is built up, bit by bit, in our subconscious from the moment we are born. Psychologists call this subliminal guide our Lovemap. And when you know the components of a persons Lovemap (which I reveal how to do in my book “THE LOVEMAP CODE”) you effectively have the blueprint to making that person fall in love. This enables you to not just attract the attention of the person you like in a general sense …but attract them user laser targeted techniques aimed specifically at the components of that persons Lovemap.

    To take the analogy of a fighter jet, instead of just throwing bombs off the jet and letting them land randomly on the ground …when you know the components of a persons Lovemap …it allows you to target each individual bomb to its specific target like in a laser guided system. This is why people who have used my book have found such success with it.

  2. Get Inside Their Head: You need to find a way of getting inside the persons head so that they will constantly think about you. Getting attention in a general manner (like we went through earlier in this article) is no good because it doesn’t last. You need to find a way of getting inside their head in such a way that it lasts. Only when the attention lasts is it effective.

    This is why advertising companies keep sending us numerous ads for the same company. They know that one or two ads won’t get their brand inside your head …but instead they need to bombard you constantly with ads in order to embed their brand in your mind. In my book “THE LOVEMAP CODE” I show a simple trick that will embed you in the mind of the person you like in such a way that they will be FORCED to think about you over the next while. And not just think about you in a general sense …but think about you in a positive way that will cause them to begin feeling emotions towards you.  

Only when you have the correct knowledge about how to attract someone, can you actually begin to attract them successfully …rather than hoping on the blind luck that superficially getting their attention has.