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How To Make A Person Fall In Love With You - By Releasing Them From A Past Guilt

Want to know how to make a person fall in love with you?
But don't know where to begin and what to do?

Psychologically speaking ..."guilt" can be a tool to making a person fall in love with you.

As I’ve gone though on this website, one of the big reasons people fall in love, without realizing why they do so, is as a result of their unfinished past business (Check out my article – How To Make Someone Love You - By Compensating For Their Unmet Needs). 

There are numerous ways past unfinished business can cause a person to fall in love. In this article I’d like to cover a little known and little understood way in which a past unfinished business can cause us to fall in love, and that is a past guilt.  

Let's take an example...

Say for instance a boy didn't get on with his mother and left home never to get in contact with her again. After a couple of years of being away, he found out that his mother had died. This could instill feelings of guilt in the (now grown up) man that he didn't attempt to patch things up with his mother before she died.

He would feel guilty at the way things had gone between him and his mother and make him question if he is a truly nice individual.

What does this have to do with making a person fall in love with you?

In this situation, psychological studies have shown that this type of man would have a high tendency to fall in love with a woman that might resemble his mother so as to compensate for his poor relationship with her.

And it wouldn't necessarily have to be a physical resemblance could be the way she:

  • Talked
  • Walked
  • Or even someone with a similar thinking process as his mother.

If he met a nice woman that resembled his mother, his subconscious would see it as a way to give him "a second chance" to have a good relationship with this type of person and, in a way, make up for his past unfinished business with his mother.

Guilt Can Make A Person Fall In Love

In the above situation, the reason behind falling in love is nothing more than guilt. And the individual may never consciously spot that it's guilt that is making him fall in love to compensate for his past. 

He will simply be thinking that she is "The One" ...and someone he can't live without.

If you're reading this article at just having gone through a breakup, at this moment in time you need to ask yourself:

  • Is guilt a reason why you are feeling bad after this breakup?
  • Is guilt a factor in you wanting to get back with your ex?

If you think guilt might be at play in making you feel bad in your current situation, then you can see that you don't love that other person, but instead outside forces are at work in making you feel the way you're feeling.

This is more common than you might think…

This confusion between guilt and love is very common in relationships. I have seen many relationships based on this factor. Now guilt won't have been the only reason in the above example why the relationship began …but it will have been one of the main driving forces carrying the relationship.

As well as any guilt you may have built up over the years; you can also become attached to a person if they made you feel guilty in some way and you were taken in by it. An example of this would be if the individual told you they were unhappy with their appearance and felt no one would ever like them like you do ...or if the person was coping with the death of a loved one and so you felt sorry for them and directed your feelings towards them.

The above situations are enough to put up the guilt roadblock and stop you emotionally from wanting to leave them. Most people unwittingly confuse love with guilt and think that they really have fallen in love when in actual fact it's just guilt.

How To Use This ...To Make A Person Fall In Love With You

Considering what we've just gone through, if you could find out some past business or past guilts of a person ...what would this mean? Well, if you had this information ...then you would have information that you could directly use to make that person fall in love with you. 

I cover how to do this in my book "THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology" well as a comprehensive set of other techniques if you are not able to find a past guilt in this persons life (or if it happens that they don't have a past guilt).