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How To Make A Player Fall For You (And STOP His Wandering Eye!)

How to make someone fall in love with you

If you want to know how to make a player fall for you, you first need to understand something about the psychology of players. 

Players on the surface seem strong. But they only seem strong in the sense that bullies and narcissists seem strong. In reality, this “strength” is only superficial in nature. The personality type (and actions) of these seemingly “strong” people are actually attempts to COMPENSATE for some area of their life in which they are lacking. 

(NOTE: To discover how to program a guys mind into becoming emotionally tied to you and prevent him from looking at other girls, check out my book "THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology".)

Just like bullies and narcissists target people in order to make themselves feel good about some area of their life in which they feel BAD, players also target people in order to make themselves feel good about someone area of their life in which they feel BAD

Understanding this is key if you want to know how to make a player fall in love with you.

How To Get A Player To Fall For You – Uncovering His Mentality

People become players for a number of reasons. Let’s go through 3 of them here to give you an idea of what I’m talking about:

  1. Low Self-Esteem/Ego: Someone with low self-esteem may try to get with lots of women simply to give himself a sense of self-worth. The player reasons that if he has lots of different women, then this must be “proof” that he is someone important and has worth. Very often the player is not trying to enhance their ego as such (though this is what it may appear at the surface level) …but is rather trying to get away from a very real sense of LOW self-worth. They are trying to escape from this.
  2. Failed In Life: If someone failed in some aspect of their life such as they didn’t get into their desired college, didn’t get the job they wanted, didn’t get their childhood sweetheart etc …it can create a sense of self-failure in the mindset of the person. Most people can cope with this, but others try to compensate for this failure by exaggerating success in other areas of their life. Such people can become players and try to get with more women than other guys they know. Getting with more women than their friends becomes “their success story” in a way. 
  3. Negative Past Experience: A lot of people become players in order to compensate for a negative past experience. For example, lets take a situation where a guy was dumped and this badly affected him. Not only was being dumped bad enough, but he also felt bad because of how he might appear to his friends and family at having been dumped. In such a situation, this guy might become a player and try to get with lots of women just to make a point. He’s trying to prove that he is over that breakup and prove to his friends and family that he is ok. 

As you can see, all of the above points revolve around one thing – COMPENSATION. In the vast majority of cases, a player is a player because they are trying to compensate for something else. 

The harder they try to be a player, the more the thing (that they are trying to compensate for) is bothering them. Its a simple equation. 

In order to attract a player and make him fall in love with you, you need to find out what unmet need it is that they are trying to compensate for, and then provide them with this unmet need.

How To Make Someone Obsessed With You

If you can fix a players unmet need, then you become their source of compensation (rather than “being a player” being their source of compensation). In effect, their obsession with being a player is transferred to an obsession for you.

You see, the person is trying to compensate for their unmet need any which way they can. Becoming a player is just ONE way of compensating for it. If you can find out a way of providing them with this compensation, then YOU become another way of compensating for this unmet need.

You become their means of compensation and so they will do anything to keep you in their life. One way the subconscious mind makes a person keep someone (who it feels satisfies an unmet need) in their life …is to make the person fall in love with the person who satisfies the unmet need. 

This way, the person will work that much harder to make sure that they keep that person in their life (so that this person can continue to satisfy the unmet need for them).

What You Need To Do ...To Make A Player Fall For You

In essence, you need to do two things:

  1. Discover what the unmet need is
  2. Satisify this unmet need for the person

In my book “THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology” I reveal how to do this. The good thing about this approach is that not only does it allow you to make a player fall in love with you …but it STOPS his desire to become a player (because he no longer has any need to compensate for his unmet need).

This ensures that when you make your player fall for you …you do not have to worry about him trying to get with other women behind your back. You become his SOLE source of compensation.


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