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How To Talk To Someone You Like

Want to know how to talk to someone you like?
So they'll start liking you back?
And maybe even fall in love with you? 

Consider this psychological point first: 

"The human mind is designed to fill in gaps in the world around it."

For example, if we see a random cloud in the sky, our mind works to form something out of it. If we hear the first line of a song we like, we tend to hum the next line of it to ourselves in correspondence with the first part we heard.  

We like things to be complete, and our subconscious mind works to fill in the gaps in the world around us to make our surroundings complete. This natural desire of the subconscious mind has a direct affect on the process of making someone fall in love with you.   

How?

When we communicate with other people, their minds work to form an opinion of who we are in order to get a complete picture of who we are.

In other words, a person doesn’t like to simply evaluate words at face value, but instead likes to associate those words with a particular personality trait …and then assign this personality trait to that person.

This completes the picture of the other person in their mind.

This is how people get labelled as nice, smart, funny or interesting etc. And how you are labelled in the other persons mind is a key factor in the process of making that person fall in love with you.

But while it’s good to be labelled as nice, smart, funny or interesting etc …all this will do is simply make you more attractive in general to the other person (and not necessarily cause them to fall in love with you). To actually make them fall in love with you (and see you as “The One”), you will need to find out the exact labels that cause the specific person you like to fall in love.

How do I do this?

In my book THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology I include an unannounced bonus called THE LOVEMAP DISC. This bonus shows you how to analyse the specific personality type of the person you are trying to make fall in love with you.

Why is this important?

Because the kind of personality this person is likely to be attracted to in another person is directly related to their own personality type. For example, a dominant controlling type individual is more likely to fall in love with someone who has a supportive personality type …rather than to someone who also has a dominant controlling personality type (this is because two controlling personalities together would result in a power clash between the two).

The personality type of the person directly influences the personality type they are likely to fall in love with. The words you use in your everyday language when you talk with the person is CRITICAL ...as these words will directly determine the personality type the person associates you as having.

Therefore, you find out their personality type. This is what THE LOVEMAP DISC bonus of THE LOVEMAP CODE program shows you how to do. Once you know their personality type, the program then shows you the personality type that person is likely to fall in love with. AND what words to use in your everyday language with the person to demonstrate to that person that you are that personality type.

The person will then slowly begin to feel a "connection" with you and won't be quite sure why. They will just assume its "fate" or "destiny" ...and that you must be "The One". This is the most powerful way to talk with someone you like.

You Need To Be Careful Of How The Person Labels You

The way you talk with your target person DIRECTLY influences how they label you, and the personality type they subconsciously categorize you as having …and the personality type they categorize you as having will decide if they can or can’t fall in love with you.

The right words for one person might be the wrong words for another person. It depends on their personality type. This is why we all fall in love with different people …and what works on one person might not work on the next person.

Check out my book THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology to find out how to talk to someone you like. You need to make sure if you are using the correct words on the person you like (that correspond with their personality type) …or are actually using words that are effectively acting as a bar to them ever being able to fall in love with you.


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