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What makes people fall in love with one person ...and not another?

How to make someone fall in love with you

When we hear music for the first time, we either like it or we dislike it. Have you ever noticed that?

So why is that?

It’s because the music we love is the music we already have in our own hearts.

(NOTE: To discover how to program a specific persons mind into becoming emotionally tied to you, check out my book "THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology".)

We just know if a song is one that we will get to like …or if its one that we will avoid listening to …if we ever hear it begin to play on the radio.

Love Works The Same Way

Love works the same way. There’s a certain tempo or rhythm about our lives. And certain people fit into that. The gate that determines who will (and won’t) fit into that rhythm …is called our “Lovemap”.

Whether you realise it or not, everyone has, buried in their subconscious, a subliminal guide of their ideal perfect partner. Psychologists call this subliminal guide our “Lovemap”. And understanding how a persons Lovemap works is the key to making that person fall in love with you.

Just like the type of music we have gotton to like over the course of our lives is determined by our environment and the people we interact with (and the music they like) …so too our Lovemap is shaped from the environment around us.

Our Lovemap is shaped as a result of our:

  • Dreams
  • Hopes
  • Experiences
  • Thoughts
  • And longings etc.

All these come together to form our subliminal guide to the person we want in our hearts. They all come together to form our Lovemap.

“Destiny” Has Nothing To Do With It

Most people think that if they fall in love that is was “fate” or “destiny” that made them fall in love. Not so. All that’s happened is that the other person accidentally matched your Lovemap …and you have fallen in love with them as a result.

If your Lovemap had been slightly different, you would not have fallen in love with that person …but instead fallen for someone else. Your environment growing up determined your Lovemap. And as everyones environment growing up is different …so too is their Lovemap and consequently the type of person they are likely to fall in love with.

This is why different people fall in love with different people. One of your friends may be in love with her boyfriend …but you might think he’s just ok. This is because he matched her Lovemap …not yours.

Understanding This Is Important

It’s important to understand that each of our Lovemaps is different. Most advices you’ll find online or in the bookstores will give you a one-size-fits-all “method” or “system” to make someone you like attracted to you so that they will fall in love with you. And that applies whether you want to know how to make a boy fall in love ...or a girl.

This is a bit like a record company trying to create a music tempo, backing track and set of lyrics that EVERYONE will like. It simply can’t be done. Even if the song is good, if that type of music is not already in the heart of someone listening to it, they will never get to like that song no matter how many times it is played to them.

Making someone fall in love with you follows the same process.

General tips and tricks on how to make someone fall in love with you don’t work. You need a laser targeted system that shows you how to match the specific Lovemap of the person you want to make fall in love with you. And the only way to do this, is to first uncover the components of their Lovemap to begin with.

This is what I reveal how to do in my book: “THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology”. In it, I reveal how to discover the components of the Lovemap of the specific person you like …and then how to use this information to make that person fall in love with you.